What does the bible say about relationships? Kjv

Written By DEXTER

Dexter is a pastor who enjoys reading and studying the Bible to inspire and empower others.

Having healthy relationships is a must for a purposeful life. Relationships are complicated, which is why it is important to seek guidance from the Bible on how to manage ours.

The Bible provides key lessons that teach us how to maintain positive relationships with our family, friends, spouses, and other individuals. So, what does the Bible say about relationships?

The Bible offers wisdom on how to resolve conflicts and forgive one another. Matthew 6:14-15 states, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”

This is a clear reminder to prioritize humility and not hold a grudge against someone.

The Bible also speaks about how to show love and appreciation to one another. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 states, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.”

Think not of what you can gain from a relationship, but how you can be a blessing to someone’s life.

Make sure you hold onto the important values of showing love, seeing the best in everyone, and giving the benefit of the doubt.

The Bible also teaches us to demonstrate kindness and respect to one another. Romans 12:10 states “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

We are all imperfect and have our own flaws, therefore show respect and give grace to those we encounter.

No matter how someone acts toward us, we should always strive to show them grace and kindness.

Additionally, the Bible encourages us to focus on our own actions before judgement.

Matthew 7:3-5 says, “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”

We should always check our own behavior instead of focusing on “righting the wrongs” of others.

Further, the Bible tells us to put God first in all things. A relationship with God should be prioritized over any other relationship in life.

The Bible tells us that God loves us unconditionally, and teaches us what true love looks like and how to walk in it.

Therefore, we must not waste time on relationships that are not from God, and instead ensure our relationship with Him is in the right place.


Trusting others and believing in their intentions is also a major component of a healthy relationship. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” God calls us to trust Him above all else. This doesn’t mean to trust blindly or to put yourself in a position of vulnerability by allowing people to take advantage of who you are. It means to be wise, but also believe that the person who you’re trusting has the best intentions in mind.

We are human with many flaws, but it is our responsibility to stay true to our word even when it may be difficult. James 5:12 states, “But above all things, my brothers, don’t swear: not by heaven, neither by the earth, neither by any other oath; but let your yea be yea, and your not be not; that you don’t come into condemnation.” Throughout life, we must strive to prove our trustworthiness and be open to repairing relationships even when broken.

Using words to uplift, encourage, and empower those close to us is another way to demonstrate trustworthiness. Colossians 3:12-13 says, “Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.” We must choose to speak life into the people near us. Our words should reflect our desire for others to succeed in life.

Honesty and Clarity

Honest and clear communication also aids in stronger relationships. Proverbs 20:5 states, “The purpose in a man’s heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.” This can easily apply to relationships. Honesty is essential for relationships to thrive. If we want to maintain a healthy relationship, it is essential to be honest and talk things through even when it gets difficult.

Additionally, Ephesians 4:15-16 states, “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into Him who is the Head, that is, Christ. From Him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.” We must communicate truth in love so that relationships can grow and become stronger. Differences should be discussed openly as it can help us to become more understanding of each other’s opinions. Miscommunication should wary so that misunderstandings don’t impede on the relationship.

We should also strive to respect each other’s boundaries. Colossians 3:21 states, “Fathers, don’t exasperate your children, so they won’t become discouraged.” Our relationships are far more beneficial to us if we are able to talk without fear of criticism. These conversations can then lead to both parties becoming more understanding of each other. Respectful communication can build a transparent relationship in which both parties can understand and support each other.


God’s through the Bible also calls us to have patience and self-control when it comes to relationships. Proverbs 15:1 says, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Patience is an important part of relationships, especially when bitterness and frustration begin to creep in. We need to remember that it is ok to express our feelings, but always in an appropriate manner.

It is also important to maintain patience when it comes to difficult opinions. Romans 12:17-18 reads, “Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” We should never lash out when things do not go our way; instead strive to be respectful and understanding. Patience should also be extended when positions and ideas differ.

We should also remember that relationships are rarely perfect and are a process. In relationships, it is expectant to seek God’s help and to constantly work at the relationship. Relationships take time and energy, and it is wise to approach others with grace. We must be willing to take risks within our relationships, and trust that God will oversee it and bring it to fruition when it is meant to be.


Forgiveness is also a key component of healthy relationships. The Bible says in Colossians 3:13, “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” We live in a fallen world and will make mistakes, it is inevitable. Therefore, forgive when you can, as God has forgiven us of our own wrongdoings.

Realize that forgiveness is necessary in relationships to show love and grace for one another. Ephesians 4:31-32 states, “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you.” Acknowledging our own flaws and having a forgiving heart brings about a healthy relationship dynamic and helps to deepen the bond between two individuals.

Some situations require much grace, and in those moments we must look to God for strength. When our strength fails us, His strength remains. We must also remember that forgiveness does not mean we must allow ourselves to be put into a new type of relationship with that person. It simply means to be kind and compassionate, and to understand that people are imperfect.


The Bible provides us with powerful lessons when it comes to relationships. For instance, it encourages us to be forgiving, demonstrate kindness and respect, prioritize trustworthiness, and to seek clarity with our loved ones.

God teaches us that He loves us by extension, which should be a reminder that He desires that we all act in love towards one another and treat our relationships with the utmost care.

Above all else, never forget to rely on God for guidance and strength in relationships.